π’Understanding Conflict and How to Handle It
π Learning Goals:
By the end of this lesson, you should be able to:
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Say what conflict is
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Know what causes conflict
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Explain how conflict can hurt people and communities
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Understand peaceful ways to solve conflict
π¬ What is Conflict?
Conflict is when two or more people disagree, argue, or fight because they want different things or think in different ways.
Conflict can happen:
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At home – like a child refusing to do chores
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At school – like students fighting over a turn
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In the community – like neighbours arguing over dog waste or noise
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Even between countries – over land or power
π§ Example: If two children both want the same toy and they start shouting at each other, that is a conflict.
π₯ What Causes Conflict?
Conflict often begins when:
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People disagree on something
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Someone feels disrespected or treated unfairly
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People refuse to listen to one another
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Someone breaks rules
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People are selfish or impatient
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Something valuable is damaged or taken
⚠️ Examples of Conflict
Here are some real-life examples of conflict:
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A parent and child arguing over chores
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Children fighting over a toy or seat
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Loud music disturbing neighbours
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A quarrel about land or animals
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One child calling another a bad name
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Dumping rubbish in front of someone’s home
π¨ What Happens When There Is Conflict?
Conflict can make people feel:
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π Sad
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π Angry
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π° Unsafe
If it continues, it can cause:
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People to get hurt or injured
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Homes or property to be damaged
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People to stop talking to each other
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An increase in fighting or stealing
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People running away from their homes or country
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The whole community to become unsafe
π€ How Can We Solve Conflict?
Conflict doesn’t have to end badly. Here are ways to solve it:
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Talk calmly and listen to each other
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Apologise when you’re wrong
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Explain your feelings without shouting
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Ask an adult or elder to help
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Respect each other’s opinions
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In Botswana, people can visit a Kgotla where elders help solve problems fairly
π‘ Peace begins when people talk and listen to understand each other.
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